As a top pro basketball player, he was used to getting what he wanted. The more I ignored him, the harder he tried. He would show up every week in old-school sneakers, a hoodie, and jeans, and stand in the corner of the entrance, watching me emasculate men attempting to enter. I was in charge of getting celebs to come in-and keeping B-listers out. The gig was glamorous but tough, and I learned quickly that many male VIPs had god complexes and felt entitled to my attention. Every night that he showed up, he asked me out.
Dating more than one guy at a time is definitely a confidence booster, but it's also hard work oh, life is so tough, right? Don't struggle with the juggle-we've rounded up a few ladies who have been there and done that to tell you exactly how to handle the tricky situations that come with playing the field. I can stay more objective until I make a decision about which situation and person better suits me, and vice versa. Admit it: You know in your gut when you're stringing a guy along. Learn from year-old Dani's dating mistake: "In my most recent relationship with a guy, we were very up front and honest about dating others, so much so that we talked with each other about our other dates," she says. I realized that although I was OK with the thought of him dating other women, I wasn't actually OK with hearing about it.